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Day: October 1, 2015

Signs of Life

There’s some sort of wrench on the table–a bike tool–and bike parts, frames, wheels and chains cluttering the front porch. There’s a pair of muddy cleats in the corner, and matching muddy hiking boots on the porch steps. Smelly socks and sweats hang out of the laundry basket. Text books with papers stuffed inside are stacked on the counter. Signs of a teenage son living here.

There’s so much life in it–things in process, used and about to be used again, things to fix and wash and get ready for the next event.

He’s the last kid living at home, and he does spread out. He’s taking over the space left open by the others’ absence. Maybe it’s just nice to stretch out after living with so many people. Maybe he misses the commotion, so he creates it with his own stuff.

Whatever the reason, I like it. I miss the commotion too: the coming and going, the scheduling and coordinating, the feeding and the packing up and unloading.

It is nice to have it quiet, I guess–to put my computer down and return to find it in the same spot, to not have to do laundry every day, to throw together small, easy meals. Right now, though, I relish the bother of shuffling a little clutter around–signs of life.

31 Days of Writing: Nest Half Full

Fall is here, time to get back to routine after the free-for-all days of summer. To get back into blogging, I’m taking up the 31 Days challenge to write every day in October on one topic.

I’ve been busy the past few weeks, with kids and company coming and going, and I realized that even though I am getting closer to having an “empty nest” as children graduate from high school and move on to college and life on their own, my nest is rarely empty. It’s more like a half-full nest.

There are kids coming home for events like birthdays and  holidays, or just to make cookies or pick apples for canning applesauce. There are projects that need a mom’s help, like buying and assembling a new bed from IKEA, and there are days that someone phones in for some home time and encouragement. Since our home often has free bed space, there’s also been a steady stream of people who need a place to stay coming through and keeping the nest from getting too quiet or dusty.

I have been approaching this season of life warily, afraid that I might be too lonely, certain that I would need to find something big and meaningful to fill my life when my mothering career winds down. Now that I can see this new stage of life just up ahead, I’m thinking maybe I’m not entering retirement just yet.

There still seems to be some mothering to do.

Day 1: Signs of Life

Day 2: A Gift

Day 3: Game Day

Day 4: I Sit and Think

Day 5: You Can Always Come Home

Day 6: Will I Ever Get My Laundry Done?

Day 7: Mother Worry

Day 8: Beck and Call

Day 9: Two Terrible Words

Day 10: The-Not-So Organized Mom

Day 11: Class Time

Day 12: The Come and Go Room

Day 13: Write That Stuff!

Day 14: Be The Mom

Day 15: Let’s Have Coffee

Day 16: Hold On!

Day 17: Gathering In

Day 18: Sunday Night at DIA

Day 19: Cooking for a Crowd

Day 20: The New Me

Day 21: Career Mom

Day 22: Low Honest

Day 23: Is Your Name Frank?

Day 24: Friday Night In

Day 25: Full Closets

Day 26: On the Same Page

Day 27: Four Little Notes

Day 28: The Birthday Juggle

Day 29: Taking a Step Back

Day 30: The Costume Boxes

Day 31: Yippee I made it! Nest Half Full Again

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